Archive for January, 2012

The beginning of a new phase!


I’d like to share the new logo for the ministry, thanks to Ryan Chavers. I am so thankful for the things the Lord has allowed me to see and be a part of and the lives that have been impacted.

Over the coming months I look forward to new things that I believe the Lord wants to do. This will not mean I won’t still be at Cross Points, I will. I’ll continue to pastor and pour into the incredible church and people! However, this is also a time to being looking to train leaders in other places to reach kids, help families, and impact a new generation.

This is an exciting time, and I am thrilled to share this vision with you starting here, and soon sharing even more!
DK

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When you don’t feel anything (part II)


2 Corinthians 5:7 For we walk by faith and not by sight.
            Have you ever seen something and said to yourself “That’s impossible. I did not just see that happen?”
            Many times, when we are dealing with situations in our lives, that is the way we act. Looking at the bank statement at the end of the month when the bills are due, seeing that the money isn’t there we say out of despair “I don’t know what to do!” And when times are good, every need is met and we have more than enough we easily say “Praise God for providing for all my needs!”
            There is little or no consistency in much of the Body of Christ today. We’ve turned faith into an emotional roller coaster ride instead of standing firm and secure on the Word of God. When times are good, then we believe. When times are tough, we don’t.
            But that is not faith at all.
            Hebrews 11:1 defines faith in the biblical sense by saying that “faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.”
Pastor Kenneth Hagin Jr. says that “faith is not a magic wand. Faith is not a legalistic formula. Faith is not a get rich quick scheme.”
 Faith is belief. But faith also must be confessed (Heb 10:38) and must work in cooperation with the other gifts that God had given believers. Gifts like love, patience, meekness, perseverance.
If we try to operate our faith based on what we can see, hear, or feel then we don’t really believe it. We’ve just got mental faith, not real spiritual faith. That is why sometimes people don’t get what they say they believe for. When push came to shove in their spiritual relationship with God and things got tough, they turned tail and ran.
God wants us to have it ingrained in us that His word is true. Not just have it committed to memory (although that is important, we can’t believe what we don’t know). His desire is for us to be led by His Holy Spirit, who is the One who reveals all truth.
When we yield ourselves to Him, and really get inside of our heart that belief in His word, then we don’t have to worry when we reach the tough times. We know that God is for us, He is our provider and we are more than conquerors in Christ!
If you are in those time of trial, finding it hard to really grasp a hold of God’s promise to you, then pray this prayer right now:
·         Dear Heavenly Father, right now I come to You and thank You for being a God of more than enough. I thank You Lord than your word says when I am willing and obedience that I will eat the good of the land. I Thank You that You have promised to provide for my every need, because I am precious in Your eyes. Right now, I confess Your Word with my mouth and I claim it in Jesus’ name. I rejoice, Lord, because I know that You cause me to prosper and be in health, even as my soul is prospering in You. And I thank You right now that I no longer worry about tomorrow. Instead I will continue to confess Your promise to me, and that promise is that I am blessed! Thank You Lord, in Jesus’ name, amen.

When you don’t feel anything (part I)


Jeremiah 29:11- For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
            Have you ever failed? The better question is have you ever failed and the doubted the plan of God for your life. You do something, knowingly or not, and later think “Well, I messed this up. That shot it all down. God won’t want to use me now.”
            That is a lie of the devil!
            The great deceiver wants you to get down on yourself. Once you’ve been saved, he can’t destroy your spirit, so he tries to destroy your faith. He wants you to think that anything you do that is wrong pushes you out from under God’s grace. 
            Now, when we sin (notice I said WHEN) we do need to get before the Father and confess that sin. We need to say “Lord that was wrong. Forgive me and give me the strength I need to stand against the devil when he attacks me with that again.”
Forgiveness is important, but it is also free. Sometimes we seem to forget that one important detail. We do something and, even though we know what the Bible says, we think that God either can’t or won’t forgive “that”
            The Father knows that you will fail. He said in Proverbs 24:16 says that “though a righteous man falls seven times, he rises again”. We have hope even when we make mistakes.
Even more encouraging is it to know that God has a plan for you, and no matter how far down you may feel, He wants you to prosper. It is His will! We’ve read that He wants us to have hope, and a future, but when you’re in the pit of despair, crying out and not even sure if God is listening, it can be very hard to remain hopeful.
            Just know that whatever you might go through, God’s best is waiting for you. It doesn’t matter how far or how hard you fall, He is there to pick you up and set you straight again.
If you feel like you are stuck in a rut and can’t get out, that God has stopped listening to you, I want you to pray this prayer out loud and know that He will NEVER leave you alone:
            Father, here I am at the end of my rope. I can’t get any lower than I am now. I want to return to you, Lord. It is my desire to dwell in the secret place of the Most High. I won’t make any more excuse, Lord. I won’t try to limit Your power. I lay down my heart, weighted with sin and guilt and shame, and ask you to wash it all away.
            I refuse to stay in this pit of despair, because You have a plan for my life. And I know that plan is a plan of prosperity, a plan of Hope. So here I am, dear Father. Broken and battered I come before you, and ask you to do a mighty work in me. Let your Holy Spirit fall.
            Thank you Lord for hearing my pray. Thank you for restoring the joy of my salvation through the work Jesus did on the Cross. I give you praise and glory and honor and pray this in Jesus name, amen
                    
    Now spend five minutes praising God for bringing you up out of the pit. Even if you don’t “feel” it, know that God knows you heart, He knows your desire to know Him. And He is faithful.

5 Lessons Every Dad Must Teach His Son About Lust


I have taken this directly from the blog where I got it:  http://www.epicparent.tv
If you are a parent and don’t follow this blog, you should. I always find useful info and topics here.

If you are a dad and have boys, you need to be thinking about this topic and how to talk to your son about it. If you have further questions, you can contact epicparent.tv using the links below, or contact me. If you have not read Every Man’s Battle, you should…and your son should read Every Young Man’s Battle as well!

Be Blessed,

DK

Posted: 15 Jan 2012 11:30 PM PST

Lesson #5…
The 10:13 Principle:

“The temptations in your life are no different from what others experience. And God is faithful. He will not allow the temptation to be more than you can stand. When you are tempted, he will show you a way out so that you can endure.” 1 Corinthians 10:13

There is no stronger, inspiring, life changing verse in all the Bible.  I believe that dad’s should teach their sons to memorize, stand on, trust in and believe every single word of this verse.  The life changing promises for your son in this verse are… 1)  You are not alone, other boys (your friends) are struggling with lust 2)  God will not give you more than you can handle  3)  God ALWAYS provides a way out.

Lesson #4…
Say NO To Masturbation: This can be a very controversial subject.  There are strong arguments on both sides of the fence, but I am here to tell you that masturbation can lead a young boy to a dark, secretive, out of control addiction.  I struggled with this as a child and into my young adult years and it will destroy your kids’ lives.  Don’t shame your boys, threaten them or act as if it is the unpardonable sin.  But love on them, have a real, honest, heart deep conversation with your boys.  Be a safe place for your boys to fail, ask questions and wrestle.
For a more in depth conversation on masturbation, check out this previous EpicParent Post.

Lesson #3…
“Bounce”: This is a lesson that I learned from the book, Every Man’s Battle.  The authors encourage men to practice the discipline of “bouncing” their eyes.  If your at the local water park, “bounce” your eyes from her scarcely covered boodie.  If your at church (so sad to say) and the “girls” are hanging out…”bounce” your eyes.  Dads, teach your boys this at a young age…I promise it will pay dividends.  You should consider checking out the book…
Every Young Man’s Battle
Every Young Woman’s Battle

Lesson #2…
She Has A Dad: I think this convo should go something like this…  “Son, that young girl your lusting after…she has a dad, and his name is Jesus!!”  Dad’s, teach your boys to honor the daughters of God instead of lusting after the daughters of God.

Lesson #1…
Live It Out: Dad’s, you can’t teach what your not living out.  If you struggle with lust, masturbation, pornography or if your a sex addict please contact me HERE.  It is time for you to get help, and this is your chance to CHANCE HISTORY and REVERSE THE CURSE for your family.

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