Archive for February, 2012

So, how was your day? Maybe not as bad as you thought…


This is a fictional conversation that I came across, but it really makes you think. Sometimes we whine and complain about the things that happen in our day that inconvenience us. But how strongly do you believe God is in control?

Its a good question to ask…

Enjoy,

DK

  • Me: God, can I ask you something?

    GOD: Sure.

    Me: Promise you won’t get mad?

    GOD: I promise.

    Me (frustrated): Why did you let so much stuff happen to me today?

    GOD: What do you mean?

    Me: Well I woke up late…

    GOD: Yes

    Me: My car took forever to start…

    GOD: Okay…

    Me (growling): At lunch, they made my sandwich wrong and I had to wait…

    GOD: Hmmmm

    Me: On the way home, my phone went dead, just as I picked up a call…

    GOD: Okay

    Me (loudly): And to top it all off, when I got home, I just wanted to soak my feet in the foot massanger and relax, but it wouldn’t work. Nothing went right today! Why did you do that?

    GOD: Well let me see… the death angel was at your bed this morning and I had to send one of the other angels to battle him for your life. I let you sleep through that.

    Me (humbled): Oh…

    GOD: I didn’t let your car start because there was a drunk driver on your route that might have hit you if you were on the road.

    Me (ashamed): Really…

    GOD: The first person who made your sandwich today was sick and I didn’t want you to catch what they had, I knew you couldn’t afford to miss work.

    Me (embarrassed): Oh…

    GOD: Your phone went dead because the person that was calling was going to give a false witness about what you said on that call. I didn’t even let you talk to that person so you would be covered.

    Me (softly): I see…

    GOD: Oh and that foot massanger, it had a short that was going to throw out all of the power in your house tonight. I didn’t think you wanted to be in the dark.

    Me: I’m so sorry, God.

    GOD: Don’t be sorry, just learn to trust Me. In all things – the good and the bad.

    Me: I WILL trust you, God!

    GOD: And, please, don’t doubt that My plan for your day is always better than your plan.

    Me: I won’t, God. And let me just tell You, THANK YOU for everything today!

    GOD: You’re welcome, child. It was just another day being your God and I love looking after My children.

The Same Mistake


So this picture was posted on a friends facebook page, and I read it and just stopped. take a look.

Wow. Do you get the truth of that? We are human. We do make mistakes. God does forgive. However, He also expects us to grow.
I think about what Paul said in 1 Cor. 13. We think of it as the ‘love chapter’ and it is. But he ends off by saying

When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me.

So often we want to make excuses for our behaviors, patterns, and problems. Sometimes there are real addictions and we need help. But many times, the issue remains because of immaturity in our lives. Remember that we have the power to control what we think about, which is why Paul again tells us in Phil. 4:8

Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.

When we make mistakes, we own up to them and trust God to help us move on. When we come back to the same things over and over we begin to feel defeated. But it’s not a matter of God not being big enough…it is usually a matter of our thinking being wrong and our maturity level not being high enough.

So…what choices have you been making that you need to change?

DK

22 steps to adultery


Today I want to share something from another leader who I follow. Ryan Frank is a kidmin leader and speaker. You can check out his regular blog at www.justfranktalk.com  and see some of it for yourself.

I am so thankful that I have a wife whom I am more in love with now than I was 4 years ago when I married her. That doesn’t mean our relationship is perfect and that we don’t ever have any disagreements or ‘issue’. but wow, when she walks into a room my eyes light up and I am just drawn to her. However, that is part decision by me and part work from both of us to communicate, spend time together, and demonstrate love to one another. It does take effort…but boy, is it worth it.

God is saddened when anyone ends up in an affair, because it always breaks hearts. He can restore, and does. But it’s always better to work on the front side and not end up in that place to begin with. So as you read this list, consider if you are somewhere along this path with someone you know. Maybe it isn’t an intentional position you’ve tried to put yourself in, but that doesn’t mean you might not to reset some things in your life!

Enjoy as you consider this guest post!

DK

Am I getting R-rated on our blog? I guess so… but for a good cause. Tonight Beth and I were talking about yet another pastor who was unfaithful to his wife. I’m getting tired of hearing these reports, as I’m sure you are.
I’m convinced more than ever that the devil loves bringing church leaders down. One of the biggest things that will destroy your ministry is sexual sin. I remember being a senior in high school and the devastation that I experienced when my youth pastor was caught in a sexual affair. 
I love my wife! She loves God, loves me, and is the sexiest woman I know. I’m committed today more than ever to sexual purity. By God’s grace, I have been faithful to my wife and by His grace I will remain faithful.
Several years ago a guy in my church gave me a stack of papers that he picked up from a conference. Included in that stack was a sheet with the chain of events that lead to adultery. I want to paraphrase it for you in 22 steps.
1. You meet someone (the circumstances vary).
2. You grow more and more aware of that particular person.
3. You spend time thinking about that person.
4. There is a series of unplanned, innocent contacts. This can be in person or electronic (email, Facebook, etc).
5. In your mind, you compare that person to your present husband or wife.
6. You spend time thinking about how unhappy you are.
7. The unplanned, innocent contacts develop into planned, intentional contacts.
8. You find ways to seek the other person out to talk and have conversations. Again, this can be online, by email or by text.
9. You realize that you feel good when you’re with the other person.
10. You start comparing. You compare the way you feel about this person with the way you feel about your spouse. You compare how the other person treats you compared to how your spouse treats you.
11. You look for ways you can be with the other person for legitimate reasons.
12. There is an exchange of apparently innocent forms of physical affection.
13. Innocent forms of affection quickly turn to embracing and kissing.
14. You experience a struggle with your conscience.
15. The desire to be in contact with each other continues.
16. You engage in actual sexual involvement.
17. You plan frequent covert meetings.
18. You are now living a double life.
19. Others become suspicious and confront you.
20. You are defensive and you deny everything.
21. At some point, the truth rises to the surface (and mark this down: it will).
22. It’s decision time. You have three choices:
a. First, you decide to continue having the affair (or other affairs) and remain married.
b. Second, you make plans to separate and get divorced.
c. You repent and seek help.
After you have read through these steps to adultery, why don’t you pray and ask God to keep you pure and faithful to your spouse? If you need to repent and get help, don’t wait. Take care of it today.

Power shift


Last Tuesday, as our pastoral staff was meeting for our morning prayer time, the Lord spoke this word to me. I share it with you because I believe God is speaking and moving and this is going to be a year unlike any other.

It is time for us to really take a look at how effective we are for God. What are we doing that we need to stop? What are we not doing that we need to start? Time is short and tomorrow isn’t promised, so let this word speak to you and ask yourself: Am I someone God can use?

DK

This is what the Lord said:
I am shifting the balance of power this year. In nations, in denominations, in Churches, and in hearts.
The biggest most impacting changes will be on the individual level, in specific lives and hearts, because those people will be the sparks for the revival that so many around the world have prayed for. They will impact the Church. The will impact the nations.

They will be the ones who truly seek first the kingdom and seek my will above their own. Not those who talk about it. Not those who play at it. But those who do it. There is power available which has been untapped. It’s been left unused for nearly 65 years except for on rare occasions. But those who will seek me will find Me in new ways and on new levels this year. They will know they’ve stepped into something different. Not new, but different.

While others will long for this anointing, the will miss it because they will not press in and go after Me with all their hearts. They will hold back, wanting what is already provided and not apprehending it for themselves. But those that do, they will be as the leaders of the first church, setting the world on fire and turning it upside down, one last time.

The power shift among nations will not be what you expect, or what you might want. But it will be critical, because it will help to open hearts that would otherwise remain closed around the world. The power shift in the church will be as a reset button being pressed. Seemingly overnight an old guard will vanish and a new day will dawn. For those who have watched closely, this will not be a surprise, but for many it will be a shock. Yet it is just as John declared as Jesus came into his earthly ministry “I must decrease and he must increase”. That time is at hand.

And I am looking for those who will ride the wave, not for a season, but for a reason. I am looking for those who will rise to take the standard and answer the call with a resounding faith. A faith that will set a new tone and shake the world to it’s very core, both spiritually and literally. Those who will tap into My power and will use it and will shine forth brightly into the vast darkness that has engulfed the world. For soon, the darkness will set for its time and the light won’t go forth. So shine it now. Illuminate everywhere you go and in everything you do. Passionately, unashamedly, powerfully.

This is a year of the shifting of the balance of power naturally and spiritually. In the world and in the Church. Setting right and setting up that which must be in place. I have warned and warned and been patient, just as I was with the Seven Churches. Now, just as I did then, I will shift away from those who have lost their first love and will reward those who have stirred themselves up with new passion for Me.

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