Archive for June, 2012

Preparing to Teach


When it comes to teaching others the Word, I have to say I get excited and nervous all at once. I love teaching, be it a small group, a chapel service, a Sunday School class or a church worship service. The way God takes the incoherent thoughts I often have written and melds them into something that has the ability to touch someones heart and help them draw closer to God never ceases to amaze me. However, I never take teaching lightly. The responsibility of handling the Word of God carefully and presenting it accurately is a great responsibility indeed.

That is why this short post, from teacher and author Francis Chan, is so helpful to me. We always want to make sure in teaching that we are doing it for the right reasons, with the right motivations, for the glory of God. When you teach-at home in family devotions or in ministry on the weekends, always be sure to follow these seven simple steps as your prepare!

Enjoy!

DK

In his message at the Desiring God National Conference, Francis Chan highlighted the importance of loving the people to whom he preaches. He mentioned seven questions that he asks himself in preparing to preach.
1. Am I worried about what people think of my message or what God thinks? (Teach with fear)

2. Do I genuinely love these people? (Teach with love)

3. Am I accurately presenting this passage? (Teach with accuracy)

4. Am I depending on the Holy Spirit’s power or my own cleverness? (Teach with power)

5. Have I applied this message to my own life? (Teach with integrity)

6. Will this message draw attention to me or to God? (Teach with humility)

7. Do the people really need this message? (Teach with urgency)

This post was originally featured on DesiringGod.com. 

Develop an Eternal Perspective


Today’s article for your consideration comes from the one and only “Bible Answer Man himself, Hank Hanegraaff. You can find out more about Hank and the Christian Research Institute by going to www.equip.org.
DK

If we are looking for the personification of an eternal perspective, we need look no further than our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. He immersed himself in Scripture, sacrificed himself for the needs of others, and treasured fellowship with his heavenly Father. Like the Master, we are called to elevate our gaze from earthly vanities to eternal verities.

First, we develop an eternal perspective by saturating ourselves with Scripture. Jesus modeled daily devotion to the Word of God. In the ultimate spiritual battle, Jesus took up the sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God. He had mined, memorized, and meditated on Scripture. Thus, when the slanderer sought to tempt the Savior to turn stones into bread, Jesus was prepared. “It is written,” he said, “‘man does not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God’” (Matthew 4:4).
Furthermore, we begin to view this world with an eye toward eternity by focusing on the needs of others. As our Master sacrificed himself for the sins of the world, we must learn to live selflessly rather than selfishly. At the Judgment those who fed the hungry, gave drink to the thirsty, clothed the naked, cared for the sick, and visited those in prison will be rewarded as if they had done these things for the Lord himself (Matthew 25:31-40).

Finally, we develop an eternal perspective by saturating ourselves with Scripture, by focusing on the needs of others, and by withdrawing from the invasive sounds of this world so that we can hear the Dr. Luke tells us that “Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed” (Luke 5:16). Unlike the religious leaders of his day he did not pray to be seen by men. He prayed because he treasured fellowship with his Father. If you too wish to develop the kind of perspective that leads to abundant living both now and for all eternity, “go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you” (Matthew 6:6).

For further study see, Dallas Willard, The Divine Conspiracy (San Francisco: Harper San Francisco, 1998); see also Hank Hanegraaff, The Prayer of Jesus (Nashville: Word Publishing, 2001) and Resurrection (Nashville: Word Publishing, 2000).

Matthew 6:19-21:
“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy,
and where thieves break in and steal.
But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy,
and where thieves do not break in and steal.
For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”

D.I.F.F.U.S.E. the conflict!


Let’s face it, when you’re married their is going to be conflict. You may really love your spouse, but that doesn’t mean you don’t sometimes get really annoyed with them as well.

This helpful little acronym is something that really works to open up communication and get everyone working together! If you have have something you need to work out with the one you love (or anyone, really) then try this handy little method!

DK

How to Diffuse Conflict in Your Marriage:

D – DEFINE the problem (on your own).           Proverbs 15:14    

                                                                       
I – INITIATE a time to talk.         Matthew 5:23-24

F – FOCUS on the “perceived” problem, not the person.           Proverbs 18:19    
 
                                       
F – FEEL their pain (as though it were your own).             Proverbs 17:17

                                                                       
U – UNCOVER the root problem.       Proverbs 20:5
         
          Symptom           Root
           Money-     Values, Priorities,
           Power –    Control Issues
           Sex-       Communication, Unmet Emotional Needs,
           Past History / Baggage
           In-Laws-     Loyalty, Expectations
           Children / Work  Roles and/or Goals Experiencing God’s Dream For Them

Conflict Resolution:

S – SET things right between you. (You can ask to be forgiven even if you don’t think you were wrong!)       James 5:16

1.  Own your responsibility.
2.  Confess – “I was wrong. . .”
3.  Ask forgiveness – “Will you forgive me?”

E – ESTABLISH  a specific action plan that addresses the issue discussed
           (Write it down)  James 1:22-25

                                                                               
• Husband – I commit to . . . by . . . (when?)
• Wife – I commit to . . . by . . . (when?)

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