Archive for December, 2012

Walking kids though tragedy


It has been a looong day. As a new parent, I’m trying not to be an emotional wreck, even though the shooting today didn’t effect anyone I directly know. It just eats at me though.

And I’m sure it does for others, too. Especially kids who hear bits but don’t fully understand. So it’s important for parents to be ready and equipped to talk to their kids about tragedy like this. The below article is a post I found through a friend (HI DEANA!) on Facebook. The original can be found here: http://www.childrenswishingwell.org/talking-to-children-about-the-shooting-at-sandy-hook-elementary/

I pray that as you talk with your kids, these simple tips can add a layer of comfort to the discussion. God bless you, and may His comfort be with those who have been touched by today’s events, victims families and survivors.

DK

Talking to Children about the Shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary

December 14th, 2012 | Posted by Cynthia Manley in Parenting

Today’s tragedy at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, Ct., has left all of us shaken, especially parents, who may be wondering how to talk to their children about the shooting.

We talked to Jodi Bauers, child life manager at Monroe Carell Jr. Children’s Hospital at Vanderbilt, who offered some guidance for parents.

She said that the biggest question children are likely to have is whether something similar can happen to them. Parents should reassure them and help them feel safe while also providing age and developmentally appropriate information.

Her other tips for talking to your children about the shooting include:

  • Take care of yourself first. Calm your own fears and anxiety before talking to your children. They pick up on your emotions, and your calm demeanor will go a long way to reassure.
  • Turn off TV and other media. Graphic details and images can be upsetting to all of us. Younger children may think that the event is happening over and over. Tuning in for the latest is tempting; pace yourself with the news and listen in only when children are out of earshot.
  • Consider the child’s age when deciding whether bring it up. A preschooler may not know about the event and probably doesn’t need to know about it. Answer questions if they ask.
  • Be proactive with older children. You can start the conversation with “you may have heard about…” and ask what questions they may have.
  • Help the child understand that it is OK to feel sad or angry that this had happened.
  • Reassure and emphasize their safety. Discuss the steps that adults in their life take to keep them safe, such as their schools’ safety plan and safety measures taken at home.
  • Help your child find ways to cope with their fear and grief. Providing outlets like artwork or imaginative play can help them process their feelings. Draw on ways your family typically copes with a crisis such as sending a card, making a donation as a family to help the victims or praying together.

If you or your child need additional help dealing with this tragedy, be sure to contact your doctor or mental health provider.

We hope these tips help you and your family in the aftermath of the Sandy Hook Elementary shooting.

 

Is December 21 the end of the world?


From the 2009 movie to the tabloids to even some syndicated newscasts, people have been talking a lot about the ‘Mayan Prophecy’ about the world ending on Dec. 21, 2012. This is of course nothing more than a ploy to sell magazines or survival gear, or ads. Yet many people buy into these false doomsday prophecies.

So, in an effort to cut through the fluff and get to the point, we turn again to the incredible team at http://www.gotquestions.org for a more Biblical viewpoint on this topic.

Enjoy,

DK

P.S.- News just broke about a tragic elementary school shooting in Connecticut this morning. They are saying 18 kids and nine adults are dead. As a new parent, I feel even more for those who are touched by this tragedy. Elizabeth’s and my thoughts and prayers are with these families. We are certainly living in a world that needs Jesus.

 

Question: “What is the year 2012 Mayan prophecy?”

Answer: The ancient Mayans, in their “Long Count” calendar, had December 21, 2012, as the end of the calendar. This “end” of the Mayan calendar leads to many different interpretations. Some see it as nothing more than a reset, the beginning of a new cycle. Others see it as the date for the end of the world (or at least some type of universal catastrophe). So, what is the Mayan Long Count calendar, and does it have any relation to the end of the world?

The Mayans developed their own calendar (The Long Count) ca. 355 B.C. They were able to use their observations and mathematical prowess to calculate the future movements of stars across the sky. The result was that the Mayans discovered the effect of the earth’s wobbling as it spins on its axis. This wobbling rotation causes the stars’ movements to drift gradually in the sky (an effect called “precession”) in a 5,125-year cycle. The Mayans also discovered that once every cycle the dark band at the center of the Milky Way (called the “Galactic Equator”) intersects the Elliptical (the plane of the sun’s movement across the sky).

During the year of the intersection, the sun reaches its solstice (a brief moment when the sun’s position in the sky is at its greatest angular distance on the other side of the equatorial plane from the observer) on December 21 for the Northern Hemisphere and June 21 for the Southern Hemisphere. At that time, the solstice occurs at the same moment of the conjunction of the Galactic Equator with the Milky Way. The year this occurs (in relation to our Gregorian calendar) is A.D. 2012, and happened last on August 11, 3114 B.C. With Mayan mythology teaching that the sun is a god and the Milky Way is the gateway to life and death, the Mayans concluded that this intersection in the past must have been the moment of creation. Mayan hieroglyphs seem to indicate that they believed the next intersection (in 2012) would be some sort of end and a new beginning of a cycle.

All the so-called “Mayan prophecies of 2012” are nothing more than wildly speculative extrapolations, based on the yet-uncertain interpretations by scholars of Mayan hieroglyphs. The truth is that, apart from the astrological convergence, there is little indication that the Mayans prophesied anything specific regarding the events in their distant future. The Mayans were not prophets; they were not even able to predict their own cultural extinction. They were great mathematicians and accomplished sky watchers, but they were also a brutally violent tribal people with a primitive understanding of natural phenomena, subscribing to archaic beliefs and the barbaric practices of blood-letting and human sacrifice. They believed, for example, that the blood of human sacrifices powered the sun and gave it life.

There is absolutely nothing in the Bible that would present December 21, 2012, as the end of the world. The Bible nowhere presents the astronomical phenomena the Mayans pointed to as a sign of the end times. It would seem inconsistent of God to allow the Mayans to discover such an amazing truth while keeping the many Old Testament prophets ignorant of the timing of the events. In summary, there is absolutely no biblical evidence that the 2012 Mayan prophecy should be considered a reliable prediction of doomsday.

Also included in the ancient Mayan prediction that December 21, 2012, would be the end of the world are the following theories: our sun is a god; the sun is powered by the blood of human sacrifice; the creation moment occurred at 3114 B.C. (despite all evidence that it happened much earlier); and the visual alignment of stars has some significance for everyday human life. Like every other false religion, the Mayan religion sought to elevate the creation instead of the Creator Himself. The Bible tells us about such false worshipers: “They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator” (Romans 1:25), and “since the creation of the world God’s invisible qualities – His eternal power and divine nature – have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that men are without excuse” (Romans 1:20). To accept the Mayan 2012 prophecy is also to deny the clear biblical teaching about the end of the world. Jesus told us, “But about that day or hour no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father.” (Mark 13:32).

Thoughts on being a Dad


I am fairly new at this whole ‘dad’ thing. We’re just three weeks into the life of Titus, and already it seems like everything in the entire world has changed. Yes, I read several books and talked with many people who entered fatherhood before me, but for all the comments of ‘your life will never be the same’ that I got, I guess I wasn’t really sure what it all meant.

Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m not complaining about my newfound role and responsibility. (Although, if you catch me after the 2 am feeding I may complain a little!) I really enjoy being a father. The older Titus is getting the more he is active and away. I love watching him sleep, but I also love looking into his deep grey eyes as he grasps my finger and gives me a look of ‘what’s going on?’ I love taking him for car rides and I love having him cuddle up on my chest after mommy feeds him and fall asleep. Baths are fun, although I still fret each time over the depth of the water and if it’s too hot. I don’t even mind changing diapers. Trust me, it’s not that I LOVE that part, but I don’t really mind it.

The only thing that I think still freaks me out at this point is trying to put pants on the child. After all, his little toes are so small and fragile, and he refuses to hold his legs still, so I am forced to grab them and stuff them into leg holes. So far, only once have I managed to put both legs in the same hole…so I’d say its a success. My earliest fear of picking him up and having his head fall off proved to be unfounded, which was no shock to my wife. But for some reason I was just sure it would happen sometime in those first few days. Now I think he’s sturdy enough I could pick him up by his ears, and though he may scream, everything would stay attached. I have been advised not to try this theory, though, so I guess I don’t really know.

It’s amazing just how much this little child has grown in only three weeks. I would have to say that he’s at least doubled in size, which just scares me…cause if that happens every three weeks then there will quickly be a world-wide food shortage when he reaches puberty! And of course, as I mentioned, he’s becoming more alert. If babies have hobbies his is being held and sitting in his chair and staring intently at the Christmas lights. These activities are followed closely by nap time and eating…and eating and nap time!

If I did have a complaint as a father so far, it would be this: I really want to know what this kid is thinking! The fact that God decided we would be born without the ability to speak and communicate is either an unmentioned result of the fall or, in my humble opinion, the one great oversight He had in creation. So many times Titus makes a face that I am sure must mean something…but there is no way for me to know what! It could be that I have something in my teeth, it could be that he is cold. It could be that I am holding him to tight, or it could be that aliens are invading through the window behind me. If they were, I’d never know, because I am just so focused on the bundle of cuteness in my arms!

These are precious moments. Not the figurines, either. And they’re moments I won’t get back. even if we have more children, their moments will be just as precious, but they won’t be the same. It is really amazing that I am tasked by our Heavenly Father with being a dad, and specifically of being a dad to such an amazing little boy. It’s hard work, to be sure. And it’s not a thing like what I expected, which everyone tried to warn me about.

Really, if I had to describe it in one word, I’d have to say it’s incredible.

Cheers,
DK

 

The Kroner Family is Moving!


Well, the last few months have been very busy. Let me do a quick recap:

1) Devin steps down from Crosspoints Church

2) Devin begins searching for a new ministry position

3) Elizabeth is pregnant during this time

4) September ends, October comes and goes, and Devin flies to Troy, Michigan for an interview

5) Devin returns, and Elizabeth is taken to the hospital the following morning and gives birth to Titus Shepherd Kroner, 3 weeks early.

6) The Searching and interviewing continues. Devin, Elizabeth, and Titus interview with First Christian Church in Marshall, MO.

7) Devin get’s offers from both Life and First Christian. He and Elizabeth spend the next week seeking God for what HIS best is for their ministry, and their family.

8) On 12/7, the day Titus was supposed to have been born, Devin and Elizabeth agreed that God was indeed calling them to move, and they accepted their next ministry position.

Wow, what a whirlwind, especially since Titus decided to come early…on top of searching, we’ve both been learning how to be new parents…and let me tell you, that is hard work! Things have been going well with the new baby, and he is growing and even sleeping for a good 3-5 hours at night already. We’ve had family come and go, and come again.

Now, as we prepare for Christmas with Elizabeth’s father and youngest brother, we are also making arraignments for our move. Elizabeth is getting settled in her maternity leave and preparing to transfer her office, and Devin has been busy making plans for the actual move, and his eventual start on January 7th at their new church home!

We’ve both loved being a part of Crosspoints, and are so blessed by all the wonderful people that we’ve been able to interact with and minister alongside. This is truly a great church with a bright future, and we will greatly miss Pastor Don, Pastor Nick, Pastor John, and the rest of the staff that we’ve had the opportunity to serve alongside for the past three years.

However, We are very excited about joining the staff of Life Christian Church in Troy, Michigan!

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Pastor Dino and the staff have already done so much to make us feel welcome, and we are looking forward to what God is going to do in us, through us, and even in spite of us as we come join the team and work to see people saved and lives transformed!

There is still a lot to do- packing, organizing, getting everything set up for living up in Michigan, and of course the actual move. But it’s full ahead in the Kroner house, and we can’t wait to see what God does next!

 

Cheers,

Devin

 

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