Archive for January, 2013

Let’s take a rabbit trail…


So I am just starting a series on creation leading into atheism. However, I saw this post on Facebook and it is one of my all-time favorite stories, so I had to deviate today and share it with you.

Enjoy!

Dk

Touching hearts.

As she stood in front of her 5th grade class on the very first day of school, she told the children an untruth. Like most teachers, she looked at her students and said that she loved them all the same. However, that was impossible, because there in the front row, slumped in his seat, was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard.

Mrs. Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and noticed that he did not play well with the other children, that his clothes were messy and that he constantly needed a bath. In addition, Teddy could be unpleasant.

It got to the point where Mrs. Thompson would actually take delight in marking his papers with a broad red pen, making bold X’s and then putting a big “F” at the top of his papers.

At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review each child’s past records and she put Teddy’s off until last. However, when she reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise.

Teddy’s first grade teacher wrote, “Teddy is a bright child with a ready laugh. He does his work neatly and has good manners… he is a joy to be around..”

His second grade teacher wrote, “Teddy is an excellent student, well liked by his classmates, but he is troubled because his mother has a terminal illness and life at home must be a struggle.”

His third grade teacher wrote, “His mother’s death has been hard on him. He tries to do his best, but his father doesn’t show much interest and his home life will soon affect him if some steps aren’t taken.”

Teddy’s fourth grade teacher wrote, “Teddy is withdrawn and doesn’t show much interest in school. He doesn’t have many friends and he sometimes sleeps in class.”

By now, Mrs. Thompson realized the problem and she was ashamed of herself. She felt even worse when her students brought her Christmas presents, wrapped in beautiful ribbons and bright paper, except for Teddy’s. His present was clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper That he got from a grocery bag Mrs. Thompson took pains to open it in the middle of the other presents. Some of the children started to laugh when she found a rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones missing, and a bottle that was one-quarter full of perfume.. But she stifled the children’s laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the bracelet was, putting it on, and dabbing some of the perfume on her wrist. Teddy Stoddard stayed after school that day just long enough to say, “Mrs. Thompson, today you smelled just like my Mom used to.” After the children left, she cried for at least an hour.

On that very day, she quit teaching reading, writing and arithmetic. Instead, she began to teach children. Mrs. Thompson paid particular attention to Teddy. As she worked with him, his mind seemed to come alive. The more she encouraged him, the faster he responded. By the end of the year, Teddy had become one of the smartest children in the class and, despite her lie that she would love all the children the same, Teddy became one of her “teacher’s pets..”

A year later, she found a note under her door, from Teddy, telling* her that she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life.

Six years went by before she got another note from Teddy. He then wrote that he had finished high school, third in his class, and she was still the best teacher he ever had in life.

Four years after that, she got another letter, saying that while things had been tough at times, he’d stayed in school, had stuck with it, and would soon graduate from college with the highest of honors. He assured Mrs. Thompson that she was still the best and favorite teacher he had ever had in his whole life.

Then four more years passed and yet another letter came. This time he explained that after he got his bachelor’s degree, he decided to go a little further. The letter explained that she was still the best and favorite teacher he ever had. But now his name was a little longer…. The letter was signed, Theodore F. Stoddard, MD.

The story does not end there. You see, there was yet another letter that spring. Teddy said he had met this girl and was going to be married. He explained that his father had died a couple of years ago and he was wondering if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit at the wedding in the place that was usually reserved for the mother of the groom.

Of course, Mrs. Thompson did. And guess what? She wore that bracelet, the one with several rhinestones missing. Moreover, she made sure she was wearing the perfume that Teddy remembered his mother wearing on their last Christmas together.

They hugged each other, and Dr. Stoddard whispered in Mrs. Thompson’s ear, “Thank you Mrs. Thompson for* believing in me. Thank you so much for making me feel important and showing me that I could make a difference.”

Mrs. Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered back. She said, “Teddy, you have it all wrong. You were the one who taught me that I could make a difference. I didn’t know how to teach until I met you.”

Learn From Lance


I have to admit, everything in me wanted Lance Armstrong to have been truthful. His story was almost a fairy tale as it was being played out when he was winning Tour after Tour. He was the image of heroic, and had the background that just made you want to believe. Sadly, the fairy tale indeed turned out to be a nightmare of lies and deceit. This story is all too familiar in today’s world, an even within the Church as pastors, elders, and other ‘leaders’ live double lives with the purpose of selfish gain of some sort.

having read this great and thought-provoking article last night from Ed Stetzer, I wanted to share it with you. There are times when we all want to cover things up instead of exposing them, but when we take this approach it always leads to pain down the road. What we cover, God will uncover; what we uncover God will cover.

Enjoy,

DK

(www.edstetzer.com 1/17/13 posting)

In an interview tonight with Oprah Winfrey, Lance Armstrong is expected to admit to cheating as he won his seven Tour de France titles after battling back from a fight with testicular cancer. Armstrong was “stripped of his seven Tour de France titles and banned from the sport for life by the U.S. Anti-Doping Agency in October 2012, after allegations that he benefited from years of systematic doping, using banned substances and receiving illicit blood transfusions.”

The rise and fall of Lance Armstrong should serve as a reminder for us all as to how easy it is for us to allow sin to destroy all that we have. We are all, but by the Grace of God, Lance– and we should look at the reality in the light of our own fallenness. The patterns evident in this story are not new and it is worth remembering the biblical truths that undergird. As a matter of fact, the Bible consistently points to the fall of great people and calls us to learn from those debacles.

As such, I offer four biblical considerations we might ponder after one of the greatest cheating scandals in sports history.

1. Internal desires are the root of our external sins.

James, the half-brother of Jesus Christ, writes in the book bearing his name, “Each person is tempted when he is drawn away and enticed by his own evil desires” (1:14, HCSB). The desire to succeed, to win, to be the best can manifest itself in many ways. While the desire to excel is not wrong, if it becomes the focus of our lives it can lead to external behaviors that do not honor God.

2. To fulfill our selfish desires, we often look for shortcuts.

Armstrong is not the first athlete to use performance enhancing drugs. Americans have watched congressional hearings and read expose after expose on the use of banned substances. Armstrong is definitely not the first cyclist to be banned for blood doping. From all accounts, cycling has a long history of illegal activity and blood doping. For many the shortcut to the top is often too enticing to pass up. When a desire to excel becomes all consuming, shortcutting the rules or laws becomes the norm.

Secret sin can become its own satisfaction.

The Bible says, “Stolen water is sweet, and bread eaten secretly is tasty!” There are times when the desired goal actually takes second place to thrill of keeping the secret. When this happens the secrecy becomes a self-perpetuating activity. Externally the goal of winning or being the best is still evident, but the internal driver is affected by the stolen water and secret bread.

3. The threat of being uncovered often causes us to dig a deeper hole.

In the Old Testament King David provides us with one of the well known historical examples of a person with a secret who went to extreme measures to try and keep a secret. After impregnating the wife of a man off in battle, David manufactured a complex scenario he hoped would cover over his own involvement with the woman, Bathsheba. He even went so far as to arrange her husband’s death to keep his actions secret.

Armstrong and others keeping secrets from the public have lashed out at accusers, attempting to vilify or ruin them. This while keeping the lid on their own lies. That’s what we often do.

4. Exposure is inevitable– now or in eternity.

In the case of King David it was a prophet, Nathan, who appeared in the throne room one day to expose the king’s secret. In Armstrong’s case it is former teammates, the U.S. Anti-Doping Agency, and other public and private detractors. But perhaps no more harsh words than these: “Lance Armstrong has no place in cycling and he deserves to be forgotten in cycling,” said Pat McQuaid, the president of the International Cycling Union.

It’s been said that what we cover, God will uncover. Our sins will– and do — find us out. Armstrong finds himself in the middle of this. Everything he has denied has been found true. The same will be said of our sins. Whether in this life or in judgement, God will expose us.

But for those in Christ there is good news. For what we uncover, God will cover.

As you watch the Lance Armstrong debacle unfold, consider your own life, the danger of sin, and the forgiveness that comes through Christ. Remember what some long lost preacher once said, “Sin will take you further than you want to go, keep you longer than you want to stay and cost you more than you want to pay.”


Thanks to Jonathan Howe and Marty Duren for helping put this together.

some things you may find interesting


Good leaders are always looking at what others are saying and doing. In an effort to be one myself, I spend time reading and following others through books, Twitter, Facebook, and on blogs. I’ve recently discovered Challies Dot Com (www.challies.com) and found it to be a wonderful source of devotional material to ponder. Today, i am re-posting some articles that had been listed there which led to many though-provoking ideas.

I hope you enjoy!
DK

(originally posted on 1/15 on challies.com)

Tim Tebow’s Life Is a Tragedy – This is an interesting take on Tebow. “Everyone’s life is a story, especially the lives of celebrities. But the way our stories get told is often what distinguishes us common folk from celebrities, mostly because celebrities have the media following them around creating a narrative, or drama, that always takes a predictable path.” He argues that Tebow’s life is a tragedy, fabricated by the media.

Adam and Eve and Pinch Me – Carl Trueman looks at the difference between Al Mohler and Tim Keller when it comes to evolution and wonders aloud why it is that many of the leaders of the new Calvinism are making complementarianism a major issue and evolution a minor one. It makes for a good and thought-provoking read.

The Plain Preaching of the GospelJustin Taylor shares a great quote from Charles Spurgeon as he argued that the plain preaching of the gospel was (and still is!) sufficient to grow the church.

Why Conservatives Should End the Debt Ceiling Debate - Dr. Mohler’s article on the debt ceiling is worth reading even if you read only long enough to see what he says about it being a “pseudo-event.”

Why We Need Plumbers—and Pastors – You can probably identify with this: “Growing up I knew I could serve God in whatever profession I chose. Providing, of course, I chose to be either a missionary or a pastor. … Sure, a wealthy executive or doctor who lived faithfully for Christ might achieve a modicum of respect in church circles. But spiritually speaking, they were ‘walking wallets,’ useful for funding ministry—the real work of the Lord.”

Getting on the right seat in the bus


Well, after a loooong and still ongoing process, Elizabeth, Titus and I have arrived in Michigan at Life Christian Church. Elizabeth is still on maternity leave and is busy both attending to the baby and getting things set up at our new apartment, which is considerably smaller than the home we lived in back in Kansas. While she is organizing and cleaning, I am at the Troy Campus of Life Christian working on learning their systems and procedures. I am also getting integrated into the life of the church.

So far, we’ve both met lots of wonderful and friendly people. I;’m getting to know the staff here at the church, and learning how to use a Mac. Actually, it isn’t all that different than a PC, so I now am wondering why I didn’t switch earlier!

Today was our first staff meeting of the year, and it was great. Fast, efficient, to the point, and with Pizza! Meetings don’t get better than that! Afterwards I sat in on a meeting with the current Campus Pastors of the place Elizabeth and I will be going later this year. for now, I am transitioning in slowly to the culture of Life and just learning how things work and operate by spending a lot of time with Pastor Dino, the Sr. Pastor.
We also started a 21 day fasting and worship season which kicked off last night. The worship was so refreshing and the prayer time was amazing. I haven’t been surrounded by people who prayed like that since I was back in Bible School. Not that I haven’t been around some people who knew how to connect with God, cause I have, but it was obvious that it was part of the entire church culture here, and not just a select group of people in the church.

Over the next few weeks I’ll be spending time shadowing the other pastors, doing some class work for the Bible Institute the church has, sitting in on lots of meetings, and just attempting to be a big sponge to soak it all in!

Needless to say, I am very excited. I’ve loved the ministry I have been a part of in different places over the past 9 years. I’ve meet great people, worked in great churches, and been a part of some awesome ministry teams, all while seeing God move, kids get saved, and people empowered for ministry. This is different, however. When I got into children’s ministry it wasn’t because I wanted to. In fact, I DIDN’T want to! I told my pastor in Illinois ‘no’ initially when he asked me to take over the small midweek program. I was already doing so much and had ‘my plans’. God, however, had other plans for my training and development. So for the past decade ( it will be 10 years in May!) I’ve traveled around, recruiting workers, growing ministries, and setting things on fire as I taught kids about Jesus. While I know this was indeed God’s plan, I also knew it wasn’t His ultimate purpose for me. There were times I didn’t like what He was doing and times I didn’t understand what He was doing:

-I didn’t like it when I wasn’t picked to come on staff at my home church after our associate pastor left, but God moving me to Nashville through children’s ministry was how I met my wonderful wife, Elizabeth!

-I didn’t understand it when things didn’t go ‘right’ in Jackson and I was not able to break through spiritually there. My wife was unhappy, I wasn’t seeing the fruit I expected, we were building relationships but not many, and then things just fell apart. Yet through it all God taught Elizabeth and I how to trust His provision (we had 1 job with a rent and condo payment, and 3 car payments, for the first several months). He also taught us how to relate to each other and not lean on others. We both know that without that experience we wouldn’t have the marriage we have now.

-I really didn’t understand it when it was made clear to me my time was up in Kansas. I was working hard, we had seen many salvations and new workers, and ministry was going good.

In all three of these places God used us to do some things and refined us in different ways. We gained knowledge, experience, insight, friendships, connections and more. We saw many victories along with a few defeats. And while in each place it was the right place for the moment so God could do what He wanted to do, I always sensed that it wasn’t the ‘place’ He had for me. The place for me right then, yes. But not the sweet spot in life, where you can just sit back and know that you are in the will of God and that, though you still have challenges, you are where you should be and doing what you should be doing.

I’m there now.

All these other places were like different seats on a bus, which gave me different perspectives and experiences. But now, God is moving me to the ‘right seat.’ He’s placing me where I can take all of this experience and, along with His wisdom and through the power of His Spirit, apply what I’ve gained to accomplish my ultimate purpose.

It’s such a refreshing place to be, and I am so thankful. It also is exciting, because while I know I won’t experience flowery beds of easy, that the fruit that will be produced in the future will be sweeter than any I’ve ever seen before.

Oh, what an awesome God I serve!

DK

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