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Leadership Thought: Have the right balance


Each and every one of us has many things going on that we must juggle. We want to spend time with our families, we have jobs, we want to be able to relax, we want to plan our next home improvement project, and we also want to serve others. Often what happens is our lives get out of balance and we end up feeling drained, discouraged, and burnt out because we are always on the go, from thing to thing, looking to do the next project.

We have to realize as leaders that it’s important for us to maintain the proper balance. Even as a parent, this can become an issue. We need time to focus and recharge, or we end up being less and less effective in our jobs, our service, or our parenting.

Today, I want to share with you some ‘tidbits’ that we use in training our ‘Dream Teams’ which our the ministry leaders of our church. These are good things to go over in life, in work, and in ministry. I hope these things help you think through what’s happening in your life now and how you can keep yourself fresh and accomplishing what your purpose is!

 

Enjoy,

DK

HOW DO WE LIVE AND LEAD IN HEALTH?
Pray first. In whatever season of life you find yourself in, pray. Repent and

receive forgiveness for sins. Start afresh right now.

Talk with leadership. Have a meeting with your leader(s) and fully disclose your heart and health. Submit to God’s established authority and allow them to pastor you.

Determine the “big rocks.” Set top priorities and place them on the schedule first. (Time with God, family, work, the Church, etc.) Add “pebbles and sand” of less critical items. (Hobbies, etc.)

Establish a healthy rhythm of life. Life was designed to be full and varied, so include a variety of activities such as reading the Word, riding a bike, being with friends, developing leaders, participating in a recreational Small Group, working, taking the kids for an ice cream cone, star gazing and more.

Create and maintain margin. Avoid the temptation to fill every single minute of the week with a planned activity. Leave open spaces in your calendar, even if you write in “margin” as a scheduled activity. Creating margin allows unexpected events, such as spontaneous conversations, great revelations or simple pleasures to blossom.

Set aside times of refreshing. Whether it be an extended vacation, experimenting with a hobby or an intentional Sabbath, it is necessary to put energy and excitement into your life. What makes life fun for you? What gives you energy? Put it in your schedule!

Let God do His work. It is the Holy Spirit’s role to save souls, not ours. It is our role to display the love of God. Greeting at a door, witnessing
to unreached people, clothing the homeless or bringing Doritos to a Small Group — that is ministry. God works salvation. We serve.

 

Honor pt 1- Where did the Honor Go?


This is the link to my most recent message. Its the start of a brand new series on Honor. enjoy!

DK

Vision


Tomorrow this post will hit the blog of Lifehowell.com. But for those that ‘follow’ my and this ministry, I wanted to share it here first. I’m so overcome with desire and expectation to see God’s plan and purpose accomplished here in Howell. In terms of ministry, I’ve never been so excited, so sure, or so determined in my life. Building what God desires here is a process, and I don’t expect it to happen ‘tomorrow’, but I know it will happen.

I think about what a mentor of mine, Jim Wideman, once said at a conference I attended: “The vision God gave me took almost 15 years to happen, but every part of it was accomplished. All I had to do was follow Him.” I’ve never forgotten that statement, and I believe the truth behind it with all my heart. As Pastor Willie George has said “I don’t have a great vision, a great vision has me!”

 

Enjoy,
DK

Hey everyone,

This is Pastor Devin. I wanted to take a moment to share with you some things from this past weekend and our leadership meeting. I know it was a long day, having church and then our meeting, but I am so glad we did! Not only did we share some important information about the transition from Pastor Anton to myself as the campus pastor, introduce Kaytlynd Spangler as our new youth (and eventually worship) minister, but we also took some time to talk about our vision.

Vision is the ability to see something as done before others see it. Here at Life Christian, our vision consists of four (4) main components:

  • A Relevant Worship Service
  • Growth Track
  • Dream Teams
  • Small Groups

Relevant is a word that is often thrown around in the church world today, so let me define for you what it means here. To have a relevant worship service at Life Christian in Howell, we want to have a gathering in which every person who comes through the doors leaves having gotten something out of being here. It can happen different ways for different people. Maybe one day you really get something from the message that helps you and enables you to make changes in your life. That’s relevant. Maybe the message was nice, but during the worship you encountered the presence of God in a special way and are able to leave charged up and ready to face the week. That’s relevant. Maybe during the service someone has a word of knowledge or a word about healing that is for you. That is relevant. Maybe you just get to spend some time being encouraged by other people of faith and are reminded that you’re not alone in your endeavor to live for God, despite the challenges. That, too, is relevant.

The fact is, some services you may not feel moved by the worship, or particularly inspired by the message. That doesn’t mean that the service can’t have relevance in your life, when you’re open to hearing from God. Our desire is to present an opportunity for each person that comes through our doors to hear about God’s love for them and His wonderful plan for their life, and to connect with others as well. That is what makes a relevant worship service.

The second point of our vision is our Growth Track Process. Growth Track is a four week ‘class’ that is designed to take people from the front door to being connected to the life of the church. In Growth Track we discuss who we are at Life and what we believe, we talk about our focus as a ministry, and we help people discover their gifts and abilities in an effort to connect them to others through service.

Why is that so important? Because when we understand that we all have a special part to play in God’s plan if gives us a sense of purpose. Growth Track helps us focus in on how we can best be used to accomplish that purpose in our lives, which will in turn give us a sense of fulfillment and joy that we don’t otherwise find. In Howell, because we are in the process of rebuilding some ministries, we aren’t doing Growth Track as regularly as we normally would (monthly). However, we believe this process is important and look forward to offering it again this fall for those who want to attend. Lunch is always provided for this meeting, which takes place directly after the Sunday Service.

The next point of our vision is our Dream Teams. Dream Teams are the names we give to our ministry service teams. While this may seem strange at first, the reason is actually quite compelling. In most churches you serve on a ministry team. There’s nothing wrong with that at all. But at leave, we don’t just want people to serve on A TEAM. We want them to serve on the RIGHT team. That means when you are serving you are using the gifts and talents and abilities you have to glorify God in your area of ministry.

This is a marked difference from many church cultures, where they work to ‘plug people in’ where needs are. Do we have needs? Sure we do. However we also understand that putting people in slots to work just because there is a need isn’t the answer. If what you’re doing isn’t something you’re interested in and passionate about, then you won’t be happy and feel fulfilled there. That in turn means you won’t last long, and in many cases that you won’t stay at the church, because you aren’t connected to God’s purpose for your life. Our desire is to help you discover what you’re passionate about and do that. We believe that if we do, not only will you be fulfilled, but you will end up helping us accomplish God’s plan and purpose for Life Christian much more effectively than if we simply ‘plug you in’ as needed. Oh yes, things happen and when they do we’re grateful for willing servants. But we strive for that to always be the exception.

The final point of our vision is Small Groups. We believe that relationships are best fostered within the context of small groups. These groups offer us the ability to get to know people more on a personal level and ‘live life’ together. They can be based on common interests or on different types of study (such as a study of a certain book or a certain Bible Concept). Each group meets outside of the church during different times of the week, depending on the schedule that works best for its members. So one small group may meet in a home on Thursday nights to study Psalms. Another group may meet at the track for a devotion and prayer before going for a run!

Small groups are the life-blood of our church, and something we are working very hard to establish. This is a transition for us, but one we are excited about. Currently, we are in the ‘training’ process on how to do small groups together. Each Wednesday I am leading a book study with those that attend. It is discussion based and is more of a traditional small group. Then, about every other Sunday (June 16 and 30 this month) I am hosting a cookout at my house for everyone be a part of. This cookout is relational and is aimed at building fellowship within our church.

Using these models, we will officially launch our first round of small groups in the fall. Until then, I invite you to come join us Wednesdays at 7 or on the 16th and 30th from 5-9 to participate in what we currently are doing. This will help connect you to others and give you a better feeling for what we are looking to accomplish come this fall.

I’d like to leave you with this: I mentioned our leadership meeting Sunday. At the end of our time together I gave all of our leaders a slip of paper that said “By Faith I See” and asked them to spend a few moments in prayer, asking God what He wants to do here in Howell. Then I collected those sheets and our Pastoral Staff shared some of the vision God has been giving us. After the meeting, I read the slips everyone turned in. My heart rejoiced as I read some of the things God is showing our leaders and speaking to you about, from teen to adult. Things like expanding our worship team, seeing people saved, believing for family members to come to church, and much more.

Pastor Anton, Kaytlynd, and I stand with you in agreement that God has big things ahead. I look forward to hearing and seeing how He accomplishes some of these things. For my part, I would like to share here 4 things I believe God has spoken to me about for this ministry, as an encouragement to you and as a way of saying ‘believe with me.’

My vision…By faith I see:

  1. 100+ adults in the service by the end of this year.
  2. To see 50+ salivations before the end of this year.
  3. To see us grow to 300+ and then ‘seed’ 50+ people into a new campus plant within 3 years
  4. The need for a separate youth facility by 2015

Vision…it’s one of the most powerful things available to us in life. The Bible says without it, people perish. Let’s decided to look forward together, and see what God does next!

blessings,

Pastor Devin

 

Mornings, oh yes


I admit it, I am not naturally a morning person. Having an infant son hasn’t really helped to make me one either. However, the principles of today’s post from the Insights Blog are ones I have personally seen and experienced, and have heard from countless other leaders as validation. So, I’ve made it my personal goal to change and carry out this in my life. I admit, some days, weeks, and months I don’t do so well with it. but change is often gradual, and I know that I will get there.

I hope you find this of value in your own life, be it for your family or your work!

 

Cheers,

DK

Why You Need A Morning Routine & How It Can Change Your Life

Have you ever wondered how you can increase the amount of work you can comfortably get done in a day? Though many people cringe at the idea of waking up earlier than they have to in order to get a head start on their day, it is characteristic of many successful leaders.

Steve Reinemund, the former President and CEO of Pepsi would go on a four-mile jog at five in the morning. Michelle Gass the President of Starbucks also enjoys a morning run because it “clears her mind,” as she told Forbes Magazine. The old adage “the early bird gets the worm” really does seem to hold true.

So why should church leaders especially focus on developing and maintaining a strong morning routine?

Focus – People without direction or guidance generally stray from the course. They find themselves wondering what they were doing or what they need to do. A good morning routine provides church leaders with direction at a time when they might not yet be awake and attentive. Knowing ahead of time what you’re going to do when you wake up can be a key factor in how productive the first few hours of your day become. Without the focus provided to you by a morning routine you might loose grip of our most valuable resource, time.

Momentum – Imagine a runner who is about to start a race. If he stumbles or is too slow off of the blocks, then he might have just lost all chances he had of winning the race. Likewise, how church leaders start their days is critical to giving them momentum and setting the courses they will follow for the rest of the day. Starting your day on the right foot can be the difference between a bad day and a good day, or the difference with an okay day and a great day. Church leaders need to focus on building momentum in the morning so they can accomplish the best work they can for the Kingdom the rest of the day.

Prioritize – The things that you care about the most should come first in your life, and especially come first during your day. Church leaders especially should take advantage of an early morning start to set their priorities in their head, heart, and soul. Whether its thirty minutes studying the Bible, or a morning run to the latest worship album, the things that church leaders focus on in the morning will likely be the things they put the most stress on in the rest of their day. Early in the morning is the perfect time to prioritize since there tends to be fewer distractions present to pull you away from your task at hand.

Less Work – Let’s face it, church leaders are human too, which means they have limits. A structured morning routine will allow you to focus on the task at hand instead of wondering what you should work on or do next. When you’re disciplined in your morning routine, you eliminate the temptation to procrastinate or become distracted.

Starting well with a morning routine can have a significant impact on church leaders and the quantity and quality of the work that they do throughout the day. Your morning routine doesn’t have to be about the work you have to do that day. A successful morning routine should serve the purpose of getting you excited to go to work for the Kingdom.

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