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Being Christ-Like


Today’s post is another ‘old’ classic from 2010. As I read through it this morning I was re-challenged to think about the things that I’m doing and if they’re the right things…the important things. In reality, 100 years from now the only thing that will matter is someone’s relationship with God.

For anyone in the Kansas City area, the Upper Room still happens every Sunday, and is lead by my good friend Ethan Bunce. I would encourage you to check it out. For everyone else, I challenge you to find time-alone or in a group, where you can spend a while just in worship before God and be refreshed. Services are great, but often times we don’t focus on the worship because we’re serving, we’re there for the Word, we want to connect with friends…Church is an awesome place to provide community, but make sure that you take time to cut out all distractions and worship your awesome God!

Enjoy!

DK

Each Sunday night we have a worship ministry called the Upper Room that meets for 1 hour. This time of worship, prayer, and fellowship is so rich and refreshing. It takes me back to my Bible School days in the living room of one of my good friends homes, as we’d have CD worship and pray, and just wait for God to talk. He always would.

A few weeks back, He impressed something on my heart that I would like to share:

Being a Christian is supposed to mean being Christ-like. But what is that? Our definition of Christianity has become so convoluted and polluted that most people have no idea what its like to be Christ-like. Their head is so full of other peoples ideas of Christianity that they wouldn’t understand Christ-likeness if Jesus Himself stepped in front of them and smacked them in the face.

Today, Christianity has been reduced like a broth to basic religious elements

we go to church
we give to the church
we sing, dance, run, and lift our hands

And we actually thing THESE things are an exhibition of true Christianity.

But its not. Being a Christian isn’t about putting your butt in a seat or a check in the plate on Sunday morning. Christianity has nothing to do with how loud you can shout or how high you can lift your hands.

Christianity is Christ-likeness. Its having our lives look like Jesus’ life, and not like the life of the TV preacher, famous athlete, our momma, or sister so-and-so. Oh, being in church is important because God says so (do not forsake the assembling of yourselves together- Hebrews 10:25). Tithing is important because God tells us to bring the tithe into the storehouse (Malachi 3:10). Singing, shouting and even dancing are important because they are natural expressions and reactions of adoration for an overwhelming, Supreme God how has impacted our lives. David couldn’t help but dance and sing for joy in His presence.

However, nothing about these things makes us a Christian.

all the tee-shirts we wear, the bumper stickers we have…they don’t cut it either. A cross around your neck is no guarantee of the impact of the cross upon your heart. Christianity is about action. What did I DO today that’s like what Jesus DID?

whose life did I impact
whose heart did I encourage
whose thinking did I challenge
whose situation did I step into and bring hope?

God cares so little about your religious expressions that you’d feel embarrassed if you knew how much difference it made. Jesus said ‘The works that I do, you shall do also, and greater works that these…’ (John 14:12). The book of 1 John says ‘as He is, so are we in this world’ (1 John 4:17).

We need to readjust our mindset and stop the frivolous, fanatical religious rituals and start feeling the change of real relationship. We need to stop being church-like and start being Christ-like. We need to stop acting like Christians and start acting like Christ.

The relationship we have with Him should so changes us, so penetrate every area of desire, every dream of the future, every passion of our heart, that instead of life being about simply being close to Him that it becomes about being an imitator, a copy, a double, and a duplicate of Him. Christianity is about Christ-likeness, not people-likeness. Its about action and impact not words and going through the motions of religious expression.

But in order to be Christ-like we first have to be truly impacted by him first. We have to stop caring about what others do, think, or say and be willing to be confrontational, not just conversational. Christianity isn’t about tradition, its about truth. The truth is too many Christians are too much like the world…and that is why they aren’t making a difference AND why they aren’t seeing any difference in their lives. Its not real relationship unless there is real change in the way you talk, think and act.

So, are you Church-like or Christ-like? Who have you and who are you impacting will answer that question well. Be bold…start being like Jesus and not like the crowd.

DK

Getting on the right seat in the bus


Well, after a loooong and still ongoing process, Elizabeth, Titus and I have arrived in Michigan at Life Christian Church. Elizabeth is still on maternity leave and is busy both attending to the baby and getting things set up at our new apartment, which is considerably smaller than the home we lived in back in Kansas. While she is organizing and cleaning, I am at the Troy Campus of Life Christian working on learning their systems and procedures. I am also getting integrated into the life of the church.

So far, we’ve both met lots of wonderful and friendly people. I;’m getting to know the staff here at the church, and learning how to use a Mac. Actually, it isn’t all that different than a PC, so I now am wondering why I didn’t switch earlier!

Today was our first staff meeting of the year, and it was great. Fast, efficient, to the point, and with Pizza! Meetings don’t get better than that! Afterwards I sat in on a meeting with the current Campus Pastors of the place Elizabeth and I will be going later this year. for now, I am transitioning in slowly to the culture of Life and just learning how things work and operate by spending a lot of time with Pastor Dino, the Sr. Pastor.
We also started a 21 day fasting and worship season which kicked off last night. The worship was so refreshing and the prayer time was amazing. I haven’t been surrounded by people who prayed like that since I was back in Bible School. Not that I haven’t been around some people who knew how to connect with God, cause I have, but it was obvious that it was part of the entire church culture here, and not just a select group of people in the church.

Over the next few weeks I’ll be spending time shadowing the other pastors, doing some class work for the Bible Institute the church has, sitting in on lots of meetings, and just attempting to be a big sponge to soak it all in!

Needless to say, I am very excited. I’ve loved the ministry I have been a part of in different places over the past 9 years. I’ve meet great people, worked in great churches, and been a part of some awesome ministry teams, all while seeing God move, kids get saved, and people empowered for ministry. This is different, however. When I got into children’s ministry it wasn’t because I wanted to. In fact, I DIDN’T want to! I told my pastor in Illinois ‘no’ initially when he asked me to take over the small midweek program. I was already doing so much and had ‘my plans’. God, however, had other plans for my training and development. So for the past decade ( it will be 10 years in May!) I’ve traveled around, recruiting workers, growing ministries, and setting things on fire as I taught kids about Jesus. While I know this was indeed God’s plan, I also knew it wasn’t His ultimate purpose for me. There were times I didn’t like what He was doing and times I didn’t understand what He was doing:

-I didn’t like it when I wasn’t picked to come on staff at my home church after our associate pastor left, but God moving me to Nashville through children’s ministry was how I met my wonderful wife, Elizabeth!

-I didn’t understand it when things didn’t go ‘right’ in Jackson and I was not able to break through spiritually there. My wife was unhappy, I wasn’t seeing the fruit I expected, we were building relationships but not many, and then things just fell apart. Yet through it all God taught Elizabeth and I how to trust His provision (we had 1 job with a rent and condo payment, and 3 car payments, for the first several months). He also taught us how to relate to each other and not lean on others. We both know that without that experience we wouldn’t have the marriage we have now.

-I really didn’t understand it when it was made clear to me my time was up in Kansas. I was working hard, we had seen many salvations and new workers, and ministry was going good.

In all three of these places God used us to do some things and refined us in different ways. We gained knowledge, experience, insight, friendships, connections and more. We saw many victories along with a few defeats. And while in each place it was the right place for the moment so God could do what He wanted to do, I always sensed that it wasn’t the ‘place’ He had for me. The place for me right then, yes. But not the sweet spot in life, where you can just sit back and know that you are in the will of God and that, though you still have challenges, you are where you should be and doing what you should be doing.

I’m there now.

All these other places were like different seats on a bus, which gave me different perspectives and experiences. But now, God is moving me to the ‘right seat.’ He’s placing me where I can take all of this experience and, along with His wisdom and through the power of His Spirit, apply what I’ve gained to accomplish my ultimate purpose.

It’s such a refreshing place to be, and I am so thankful. It also is exciting, because while I know I won’t experience flowery beds of easy, that the fruit that will be produced in the future will be sweeter than any I’ve ever seen before.

Oh, what an awesome God I serve!

DK

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